SEXUAL ADDICTION & FETISHES.............
Hello Everyone,
Many of you have seen my listing in Sexual Health on Ingenio and have called to ask about sexual addictions & fetishes.
Questions such as :
Do I have an addiction?
Is what I am doing harmful?
My lover has a problem....what do I do?
I thought I would take a moment and briefly share some thoughts on this subject.
One thing for certain......because you love sex, this DOES NOT mean you have an addiction. It is only when your sexual behavior is hurting you or someone else, that you may want to explore this with a trained therapist to see if you have a problem.
Most often it is a "Fetish" that a person is desiring and not a sexual addiction. Such as, domination / submission behaviors. Often times this is a fantasy that a person may want to explore. A desire within that is wanting to come out.
Exploring these desires can be alot of fun and very exciting, but we need to always remember the " bounderies". Bounderies are learned on an individual basis, depending on the people involved. How you feel emotionally as well as physically is very important when setting those bounderies.
So if you have a certain fantasy or fetish.......have fun. Enjoy your own sexuality.
If you think you or a loved one may have a sexual addiction.....seek some help. Enjoy your own sexuality to the fullest, make it last and make it fun.
Blessings
Lilwings03