Being Strong
Wins His Heart: Have you ever heard the term nice
guys/gals finish last? It’s very true in relationships. In this article
you will learn how to stand up for yourself, the why of it and how you
will capture his heart if you do it.
When we were in kindergarten and a boy pulled the little girls
pigtails. Remember that? Think back and remember that the little girl
that ignored the boy, he stopped pulling her pigtails. It wasn’t fun
anymore. It’s the one that turned around to say “quit it” or told the
teacher that he continued to torture. Why? Because he could. Because the
little girl gave him a fight and that was attractive.
Now what did he do with the little girl that ignored him? He actually
tried to talk to her on the playground. Wanted to get to know her…why?
Because he sensed that “this one is different” if I want her attention,
I should treat her like a lady and act like a gentlman. This is the girl
that a man will give the moon.
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To become the object of a man’s affection, you have to be wiling to
let him go if need be. Requiring respect is the only way to a lasting
relationship that really is happy and fulfilling.
I have many male clients who tell me “the woman must like to be
abused, she keeps coming back for more.” This is an honest answer and I
appreciated his honesty however, it caused me to ask him about why he
said that. His answer to me is that a woman should respect herself
enough not to put up with bull. If she won’t tolerate my bull…then I
won’t give her any. However, if she will tolerate it, it’s a game I play
until I get bored and move on.
Whew! Hard to take but, ladies, if you want the truth about how to
deal with a man, there you have it.
Common Mistakes About Standing Up for Yourself: The
next thing that my male clients tell me is a problem with most women and
here it is. Standing up for yourself draws a man to you,
HOWEVER, DON’T MISTAKE YELLING AND FIGHTING as standing up for yourself.
Notice the girl in this story (pig-tails) that won the guy and got
his fair attention was the girl who simply said “NOTHING”.
I refer to this as the Hollywood Approach.
What is the Hollywood Approach? No Audience…NO SHOW!
When we see that a man is pushing our buttons or even treating
us less than stellar, trust, yelling and screaming is not going to work.
However, you can choose not to participate in his bad behavior causing him
to stop and think…hmmm this girl is different, I want to hold on to her.
When a woman yells and screams at a man, he chalks it up to her being
emotional, on her period or worse! The bottom line here is he will
dismiss you…every single time. So when you are interested in a man, give
the Hollywood Approach a try and then come back and tell how it worked
for you.
I will guarantee this…it works like a Dream!!
Lori
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to talk about it? I’m Lori, Please call
my Confidential Virtual Office at!! 1-888-464-3646 Ext.
04014467. Or Use This Safe Call Button! I hope to hear from you.