Back to the Basics
This is a true love story that is unfolding. I am sure this happens to many as it has me.
Back to the drawing board so to speak. The basics about relationships will never change. The writing is on the wall of past experiences.
Guys want a pure gal and to know that she is there for all kinds of things. To talk or share internal concerns about himself, his family, his work, his aspirations dreams.
It takes a special gal to fill all the needs of a guy.
It takes time to discern what emotional needs a guy needs with a gal and what could have been missed before it began.
It also takes a special guy to fill all the needs of a gal.
It takes time to discern what emotional needs a gal needs with a guy and what could have been missed before it began.
Designing a real relationship takes time, patience, practice and paying attention to what is needed. A guy can be shy, can be feeling he is not good enough for the gal. The same is true for the gal. It is up to both, but it is the guy who needs to want the gal.
See the excitement and how well things flow when there is pure intention by both.
Guys do get nervous, anxious at first and it gets better. It does take time for the best to become the best.
But how will the guy know unless he talks with the gal?
There is so much time lost dwelling in fear, anger or misunderstandings about self and other issues.
Who knows when the mental dynamics will click?
Retracing any experiences with the past and sorting out what is real or not. Allows for reflective time.
If the guy is the one to pursue the gal as this is how respect is given from him to her.
Then he clearly needs to get off his duff and ask her one more time for a date, especially if he cannot get her out of his mind.
Good luck for the doors of opportunity are wide open.
I am reflecting about a certain guy and looking at his picture and remembering past experiences and wondering what he was thinking about me as I took the picture of him.
My heart is open now for reviewing my past experiences to see what I did or did not do correctly.
I pray for forgiveness and would like one more chance to see him again. I am not good at chasing a guy or being romantic.
I feel romance is unfolded when a guy really wants the gal. He is the lead and follows her and will do anything for her.
Thank you for inspiration of form, Adoni.