Healing Process takes time: Healing self and others
Healing self does take time. The preparations are the ability to heal self and work through all or as many issues that are mirrored to self when self comes in contact with associative issues (not being able to handle feelings about another person).
Acceptance of an issue, understanding of an issue, compassion for self, forgiving all involved in issue include self, (unconditional love), divine love as human beings on our journey home, Wisdom to change.
ACCEPTANCE, UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSION, FORGIVING, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE =DIVINE LOVE = WISDOM.
Thus gives self the readiness to heal others.
The time frame can take from one year to 5 - to 10 to 20 years (or a life-time till departure from EarthShan), to really heal and clear 100%. Acceptance of self issues is what being human is all about. Sorry to say that it can take longer. But it really does. It also depends on how deep the issues are and if self-esteem was not honored and then it can take the longer of 10 to 20 years or less.
This is sad, yet parents really NEED NOT TO live there lives through there natural or adopted CHILDREN, this is abuse.
It is so sad to see an adult body with a child like emotional energetic that has no self-esteem.
As the adults today go on binges of drinking, doing drugs to get away from the pain of the childhood hurts.
The same individual will do the same in adulthood with pain from a break up in a relationship as well, and it could really be more devastating for the soul-human body. The soul has a mission prior to entry onto EarthShan. Nourish this with your Children. Parents responsibility otherwise they will pay the price later and it will come back to face the parents when the child becomes an adult.
Teenagers do devastating things to self and others, which needs correcting by building self-esteem.
Building self-esteem:
Playing a music instrument, singing, drawing art, anything that keeps the mind busy and interactive to feel good about self.
Being careful what kind of people hang out with the teenagers, and then as adults it gets repeated really hard times.
Allowing a child early on, to develop skills for education and career are good builders for self-esteem.
Melt downs happen for all humans. Keeping a good skill to overcome emotional upsets is good.
Dancing, music, walking, sunshine, good healthy food, good healthy friends, trees, nature, and family pets.
Hey lets go dancing, walking, and get good sunshine, there are hands full of all the good stuff.
Thank you for this long winded blogging day. Off to dance and walk now. Adoni.