How does time happen?
What is the timing for a true relationship?
What are the phases (steps) that it takes for the emotional body of a guy to be drawn to the emotional body of a gal?
What does it mean?
What is the balance needed to integrate the guy and gal?
The sensuality is built in the genetics. Yet there is chemistry that draws two opposite energies to join forces. Thus discernment is a key factor.
Looking at all the pieces of the lifestyle design, the forces of the highest good of the design and how well the social skills happen. This process can be difficult for a guy and gal at first.
Yet how does the guy or the gal decide which opposite to choose?
Meaning when does the gal know that the guy is pursuing the gal?
When does the gal need to detach and allow the guy to choose. Each partner has free-will to choose.
There is a greater purpose to being in a very refined relationship. There is a greater purpose of the greatest force in action that draws a guy and gal to join in commitment for serving the highest possible purpose for service. Humanity is ready for these types of commitments that will bring the soul-based love energies to change the world in a blink of an eye. (these types of real relationships are highly protected).
The greatest love is captured in the soul essence that is then shared and felt by those in the auric field of a guy and a gal. This is how a person can figure out what the energy is all about. This is an inner discernment and does not need judgment from outside sources that want the couple to seek permission. It is wise to understand as much as a person can about the partner in the choice, because it is wise to really contemplate the fullness of a commitment and what potential factions are involved.
We live in a complicated world yet a real relationship does not get complicated it is simple. The real relationship becomes very simplified when both the guy and gal sit down and talk about what they need and what they want to do. They (the couple) get to design and define how, what, when, where, and why there needs to be a commitment.
The educated guess on any process depends on what the guy and gal decide upon. There is really no outside timing, it is truly the solar time capsule of the emotional human forms that brings the guy and gal into a full commitment.
This is scary as the unknown God has a design that opens as time is experienced by the relationship as a commitment.
It takes emotional integrity, emotional commitment, emotional training, emotional communications as well as mental, physical and spiritual.
It is a fine balance and a creative piece of canvas or art work to design a real relationship. Dreaming and fantasying is helpful in manifesting the real dreamed reality for the guy and gal. Asking the universe, the guardian angel, your guides for assistance as to your correct intention, thus it does happen.
Yet how does each person handle there emotions regarding each other? Very intelligent people (guy or gal) who are very mental have more difficulty following the intuitive hearts voice.
The best way is to ask, look, listen and feel for intuitive directions. Then feel the wave of changes, the wave of forward action by each person who are drawn into a commitment in a real relationship. It does take practice, it does take patience, it does take kindness, it does take undivided attention and willingness to be vulnerable to the idea of a soul-mate to share and grow with.
Living a full life generally is seen as one becomes wiser upon having an experience in a real relationship. It takes time to build and thus then going into the future by remote viewing to see the two roads that are shown to make a choice is on faith. To live in purpose in a commitment with another soul-based human or to live alone is a choice.
Surrender to faith, hope and guidance is the best answer here.
Thank you dear for inspiration of form, Adoni.