Tough Love and Compassion
What is tough love? A choice needed to be made that gives a better future or outcome than encompasses all those involved in the concerns. During case management, micro management of self, children, family, or others. We need to consider making wise choices that make the forward movement that represents a safe outcome in line with love or compassion and sometime tough love. Now you may ask what is tough love. It is a simple or complicated decision that would need to be made as not to "take on" or "try to fix" a person, a situation unless a person is under care that represents a safety concern regardless of age. When the situation is unsafe the choice is wise and tough love needs to happen. It does not matter how upset the person will become, in the long-range the person may or may not understand or be given the same insight as the one who makes the tough love decision. This matters not. What matters is the choice is a safe outcome...Remember to pay attention to choices we must make even for the closet of friends, family, extended family members in the community even as nature and human are forming... Now what is compassion, it is understanding with empathic insights yet mercy with the love that needs to be tough to proceed for a safe outcome. For example a small child or an adult crosses the street not paying attention, because fear sets motion faster than safety does. The human response is to provide safety by responding correctly. We must care as human beings for all humans whether we are connected to the family lineage, this is the law of protection...thank you for understanding dear as safety always comes first with insight of love that is tough to give self the desired choice to make the best choice made for the future of humanity and self comes forward in wholeness...with guidance.