I have never forgotten a profound word of wisdom that I heard.
"The love you withhold, is the pain that you carry."
It is hard to give all you have to give if there are past hurts that have caused you to build a wall.
Love should flow like a clear brook. Be fair to yourself and to your heart for the one that might
be your soul mate might be the one you withhold love from from fear of hurt or pain.
Life is too short not to love and be loved back unconditionally.