November 2009 - Posts
I hope when you read this you will agree all of it is moot because it goes without saying. Ideally I think writing on the topic of vanity is unnecessary but through some discussions I have had, I have come to realize some of you feel a fabulous
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Some of you are starting out and you just want to play the field and try a little of this and that. There may come a time that you may decide you want to settle down and start your first relationship. You may already be seeing someone and
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Realize people are so different and can have a number of innocent reasons to apparently be getting a feel for where your mind is at. Assume their intentions are good but don't assume you know precisely the reason why. To know the precise reason
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I find this topic a bit disturbing. If you are the geezer or the spring chicken I think I need to speak to you before I come in here and start pontificating on the subject. I don't suggest concerned family members call regarding the couple.
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I am not sure how some of you woman do it. Unlike most men it seems, you put love way ahead of sex. You keep an open mind when presented with options to find love. I wish men and more women were more like you. Alas, everyone else
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Actually this is nothing new. I have been claiming to provide relationship advice based on past experiences and it is true that I do. However I have always been intuitive about what makes relationships succeed or fail. I have never trusted
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Lets take a break from the usual substantive discussions about relationships in exchange for discussions more administrative in nature. As you may know, this blog is associated with my relationships advice listing on Ingenio/Keen. As of today,
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It is a miracle to make it through a relationship's first year. The honeymoon is short lived and the relationship is soon on the ropes. During this first year do not think you know who you are with. You both remain a stranger much longer
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Some of us are like the cats who sit on the windowsill watching life go by while others of us are more like the dogs chasing after what they want and when we catch up to it, we have no problem letting it be known what it is we want.
Has being feline
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We have been spending a considerable amount of time discussing how to keep a relationship going and how to turn the tide when the relationship heads south. Sometimes no matter how badly we want to make it work we cannot. Walking away from
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