Dr. Lisa - Life, Relationships, Law of Attraction

Attracting Real Love FREE Teleclass April 22nd 7 pm EST

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:29:00 GMT

Love is the most powerful attractor in the Universe. When we have love in our lives we also live in peace and joy. Why then do so many people lament about love? Simple. They don’t know what love really is. For this reason they attract into their lives states of love that really have nothing to do with love at all. And, that is why this class is so essential to you because it will show you how real love works at the following levels of consciousness: Spiritual, Personal, Mental, Emotional, Physical. As you learn what love is, and is not, at these various levels you will become absolutely clear about how to love yourself, have others love you, and love others in return.

Did you know according to research the number one cause for happiness is having plenty of long-lasting loving relationships?

Did you know that research shows that people who are both prosperous and happy say their ability to attract and maintain great wealth and peace of mind is because they focused mainly on service and love?

Yet, too many people do not have loving relationships, do not know how to love themselves, and do not know how to attract love into their lives.

Why?

Because they don't understand what real love really looks like and how to attract it into their lives.

This doesn't have to be the case for you! You can have plenty of loving, supporting relationships and this course will help you.

In this course you will learn what love really looks like and how to attract it into your life in the following ways:

Learn what the four major myths are that distort our understanding of love.

Discover what spiritual love is at a mystical, transformative, and personal level.

Learn how to love yourself and others in a genuine and authentic way.

Help yourself and others evolve into more loving human beings.

Be better able to discern if someone is capable of loving you.

See how embracing truth ultimately leads to love.

Learn to lovingly spot and remove abusive and controlling people from your life.

Learn the basics of how to communicate in a more loving and compassionate way.

Breakthrough codependent and needy behaviors that prevent real love from being attracted your way.

Express various emotional states (anger, fear, confusion, jealousy, sorrow, happiness) in truly loving ways.

Take more responsibility for bringing love and only love into your life.

Treat your body and physical possessions with more love and respect.

Stay in love with life, others, and yourself from this point forward.

This program is facilitated by Dr. Lisa Love, best-selling author of the very successful book: Beyond the Secret: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction (a spiritual approach to using the law of attraction in your life). Dr. Love has over thirty years of experience as a psychologist, spiritual counselor, and Marriage, Family, Child Counselor with an emphasis on love, relationships, spirituality, and the law of attraction. Learn more about her at her website: www.doctorlisalove.com

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Why Real Love Requires Honesty

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:28:00 GMT

MAIN QUOTE

A lie will easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, strangely and beautifully, rapture possesses you when you have taken the scrape and left out the lie. ~Charles Edward Montague, Disenchantment

DR. LISA LOVE REFLECTIONS

Recently, I picked up a great book, Act Like A Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey. Overall, I love the book except one part of it gave me pause and made me reflect. It was in the chapter about “Why Men Cheat” on their wives, girlfriends, etc. Harvey’s basic answers are: 1) They Can. 2) They Think They Can Get Away With It. 3) He Hasn’t Become Who He Wants and Needs to Be or Found Who He Truly Wants. 4) What’s Happening at Home Isn’t Happening Like it Used To. 5) There’s Always a Woman Out There Willing to Cheat With Him. And, ultimately he explains the man hasn’t got his priorities straight especially in having a real and meaningful spiritual practice in his life.

Ok. So far, so good. And, I also agree with what Harvey says regarding why a man is able to get away with his cheating and lying behavior with the women he is with. One reason this happens Harvey explains (using my paraphraze of what he says not his exact words now) is because the woman he is with hasn’t set high enough standards in her life to respect and love herself enough to see what is going on right in front of her and take a stand about it. She basically colludes in the notion that denial is good for you. After all, “What you don’t know won’t hurt you.” And, since her denial lets him get away with what he wants to, he is happy to join in on the denial party with her. But, denial is not good for you and it feeds one of my four major love mythes I discuss in my Attracting Real Love course — love is blind. Wrong! Real love actually requires 20 - 20 vision because you only know how to really love yourself and others when you are seeing what you need to see clearly.

Which is why when I read this in Harvey’s book I decided I couldn’t disagree more. He says if a woman starts to catch on to a man’s cheating and lying behavior and starts to ask questions a man is going to just do more of his lying and denying game. Why? Bascially Harvey says he will do this “if we care about you. But, if not — if a man doesn’t see you fitting into his life plan — he won’t even bother with all of the covering up.” WHOA!!! Come on, Steve! I know the rest of your book also says that a man who really loves a woman won’t cheat, but let’s clear this up right now! Le’t not make it seem like somebody is cheating and hiding the truth from someone out of love. No way, no how!

So, why do we really lie? Plain and simple We’re afraid. Period. Why are we afraid? We don’t love ourselves or the people around us enough to live in truth. And, real love requires the truth. Not some blunt rude make people feel stupid and horrible version of truth. But, truth nonetheless! And, if you want proof of who has the most loving relationship going on between them? Well, it’s between people who can live in truth completely. They love each other that much to be honest with them. They care about not hurting them. They care about being loved in return as well, for who they are flaws and all. And, they want a partner who can hear the truth and help bring it all into the realm of consciousness — the realm of love. That means the more a couple lies to each other, the more they actually are in fear of each other, and the more love really isn’t very present at all.

Now, why do we refuse to live in truth? It’s simple. We are thinking more about ourselves, and coming from our egos. We simply don’t want to have to face the consequences of facing and changing our hurtful behaviors. We don’t want to feel bad about ourselves by having to see clearly what is really going on. Or, to share another quote, We tell lies when we are afraid… afraid of what we don’t know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger. ~Tad Williams. In short, we are afraid to love and feed fear in our lives instead.

Ok, I don’t expect people to be perfect. But, try this on for size. Next time you catch yourself or other people telling lies ask yourself this, “What am I afraid of and how does this reflect a lack of love in myself or a lack of love regarding the people I am with?” Then, ask this, “What would it be like to love myself and others enough to be willing to take the scrape, instead of give one?”

Notice this as well. Despite what people say, love finding out the truth don’t hurt! What hurts is discovering how much there was a lack of love and how real love was replaced by deception and fear. Remember, real love heals it doesn’t hurt. And, though it may hurt to find out about lies, shedding them actually opens you up to attracting more real love in your life creating space for the rapture described in the main quote above — for yourself and the people around you.

Blessings,

Dr. Lisa Love

Dr. Lisa Love Website

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction. She is also a Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction, and Tranformational coach. There’s a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Contact me to discover what I can do for you.

FREE GIFTS ON MY WEBSITE: Go to: http://www.doctorlisalove.com/freegifts.html

Cosmic Blessing & Let's Be the Change Videos

DoctorLisaLove — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 16:57:00 GMT

Hello,

I just wanted to let you know about two new videos I have created to inspire you. They are...

Cosmic Blessing... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=astiGXbdgWw

Let's Be the Change... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReAKvag69x4

I hope you enjoy them!

Dr. Lisa Love

Benefits of Conscious Complaining

DoctorLisaLove — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 21:05:00 GMT

If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain. ~ Maya Angelou

Recently, I've been exposed to a couple of books that were anti-whining and anti-complaining. And, especially in tough times it is easy to be prone to complaining. But, did you know (with all due respect to Maya Angelou who I adore) complaining can be very useful? I call it "conscious complaining," which from a law of attraction perspective is an excellent tool that helps you clarify and discern what you "don't want" in your life, as a prelude for switching over to knowing what you "do want" from this point forward. For example. You don't want to be in debt. You don't want to have high interest credit cards. You don't want to lose your job or your home. You don't want to mess up a really great relationship. Good! You are complaining. And, by complaining in this way you are discovering what you don't want and will no longer tolerate.

Now that you are clear about what you don't want, let's switch gears and get insight into what you can do about your problems. Regarding your debt, can you whittle it down? Can you talk to a Consumer Credit Counselor to help you? Can you get financial advise regarding how to save your home? Can you live more simply and get rid of the attitude that dictates a lifestyle of consumption? Can you learn to be a more loving person and partner? What else can you do to change your life and attitude for the better? Remember, used in the right way complaining helps you get clarity. And, once you are clear you can turn your anxiety into action and make a change in either behavior, attitude, or both. So go ahead. Complain, get clear, get motivated, get changing, and complain no more!

To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love
Dr. Lisa Love Website

Copyright © 2009 by Lisa Love. All Rights Reserved.

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction. She is also a Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction, and Tranformational coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Contact me to discover what I can do for you.

FREE GIFTS ON MY WEBSITE: Go to: http://www.doctorlisalove.com/freegifts.html

Visualization Tips

DoctorLisaLove — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 21:00:00 GMT

Dear Dr. Lisa,

I've been trying visualization methods, but they just don't seem to work for me. I have friends who say they are effective. Am I doing something wrong?

Leslie
St. Petersburg, FL

Dear Leslie,

Visualization can be a powerful tool if used correctly. Here are some tips to help you out. First, when you begin a visualization exercise, make sure your motive is good. Visualization techniques are not just about creating your own health, wealth, and happiness, but about finding out how your increased health, wealth, and happiness can also be used to help others achieve these same goals in their lives. By adding in the right motivation, in a sense we invite "Divine participation" into our creative visualization efforts.

Second, when I first started to practice visualization exercises many years ago, I realized that the capacity to visualize was not very strong in me. Of my five senses, my hearing and touch senses were more developed, and seeing pictures in my mind was not easy for me. So, I had to practice very simple visualization techniques to get me started. For example, for some time I simply tried to hold the image of a circle with a dot in the center (a symbol for the sun). Later I would image other simple geometric shapes, like a triangle, square, and so forth. Next, I would add color to the shapes, and put the shapes on top of each other. Over time, I would attempt to rotate the shapes and imagine what that would like. When I was at last able to master holding a stable image for some length of time, adding color and a three-dimensional perspective to it, I entered into more complex forms of visualization.

Why are these basic steps important? Because visualization is more powerful and effective, the more real it becomes to us. This is why one teacher I had even encouraged adding all the senses in a “visualization” exercise, not just the capacity to see images. For example, if you were to visualize yourself in a park, you would “see” the images in the park, sun, trees, grass, people, but you would also hear the sounds in the park (children playing, yourself breathing in and out, birds singing). Then, you would add the touch sense, feeling the wind touch your skin, the warmth of the sun on your body and the ground, and so forth. You would even add smell (the flowers, the water nearby, your own body scent, and so forth), and for those who could really get into it, you would add the last sense of taste, which is usually difficult for people to master (tasting the air on your tongue for example).

Why go through all this? Well, as you probably noticed even in what I wrote to you above, the entire scene begins to become increasingly real to you. And this is the power, the more real it becomes, the more likely you are to not only motivate yourself to make it real in your life, but to condition your body to respond as if it were real (which is why many of us respond to movies as if they were real, getting scared, happy, sad, even though it is only a “movie” on the screen).

In a way, visualization is a poor word, since it only indicates the use of one sense. But, the idea is that you can begin to change your life by using your five senses to re-imagine, or re-sense, your experience of life. And when this ability is added to the desire to change your life not only for the better, but to dedicate these changes to helping others improve their lives as well, that when the hand of the “divine” steps in, in my opinion, and empowers what you are doing even more.

A third step involves one not often talked about in books, which also might be the reason the tool is not working for you, and that is visualization exercises can often call up resistance to the very thing we are trying to manifest in our lives. In other words, each of us has certain habit patterns we have settled into in life. When we try to change those habit patterns, there is often resistance. This resistance can come in the form of a loss of personal will power, other people stepping in to discourage us, or simply forgetting to keep practicing our visualization exercise. Whatever the form of resistance, it is important to remember that persistence is the best way to overcome this. Persist in your visualization practice and success will be more likely that what you visualize will come true in your life.

Blessings,

Dr. Lisa

Want help with the above? I’m here to assist you.
Contact me at Dr. Lisa Love Website

Copyright © 2009 by Lisa Love. All Rights Reserved.

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction. She is also a Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction, and Tranformational coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Contact me to discover what I can do for you.

FREE GIFTS ON MY WEBSITE: http://www.doctorlisalove.com/freegifts.html

It's Not Failure When...

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 16:25:00 GMT

Main Quote

If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down — Mary Pickford (1893 - 1979)

Dr. Lisa Love Coaching Tip

Mistakes are a part of life. I should know, I’ve made plenty of them. Chances are you have too. And, one of the trickiest things about making a mistake is knowing how to think and feel about it. Why? Because the quicker you can turn your attitude and feelings around to admit you made a mistake and then seek out a way to correct it, the sooner you can get up, brush yourself off, learn from the mistake and move towards a path of ultimate success. After all many of the most celebrated and successful people in history have gone through a brutal series of mistakes. Abraham Lincoln, for example, had a succession of failed businesses and failed political campaigns before becoming President of the United States. More than likely his capacity to learn from his stinging failures and to become more humble at an ego level helped him become so celebrated later on. Thomas Edison the inventor of the light bulb is known to have failed hundreds of times in his attempt to create one. Yet, he saw each failure as getting one step closer towards success because each time he understood what not to do from that point forward. Regarding your own mistakes and failures at this point consider what it is you can do to change course, gain knowledge, and mature at all levels — spiritually, personally, mentally, emotionally, and physically. In short, it’s only failure when you give up and fail to exercise the human capacity to evolve. It’s not failure when you feel pride, not shame, in your own power to evolve. So, get up. Get moving. Success is not as far away as you think!

Blessings,

Dr. Lisa

Want help with the above? I’m here to assist you.
Contact me at Dr. Lisa Love Website

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction. She is also a Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction, and Tranformational coach. There’s a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Contact me to discover what I can do for you.

FREE GIFTS ON MY WEBSITE: http://www.doctorlisalove.com/freegifts.html

Under Pressure Lately? Become a Diamond Soul! Thrive Not Survive!

DoctorLisaLove — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 22:39:00 GMT

BE A THRIVER NOT A SURVIVOR - HERE'S THE DIFFERENCE

As a SURVIVOR you will waste time on:

obsessing about the past instead of learning from it
"woulda, coulda, shoulda's"
misdirected and unhealthy anger
depressed and stagnated emotions
stuffed grief and attachments to what has been lost
comparing themselves to others
problems instead of solutions
self-pity, blame, and toxic shame
fearful thoughts that immobilize them instead of kick them into action

As a THRIVOR you will:

Learn from the past and move "future forward"
Take responsibility where you can and let the rest go
Use healthy anger to get motivated, set boundaries, and make
healthy choices that improve your self-esteem and self-respect
Move through the grief and loss process in a nurturing way
Build a team of support to help you move through
Set long term intentions and focus on short term daily goals
Turn anxiety into action and have achievable action steps
Focus on the end you want to achieve and use effective strategies to
help you reach their goals.
Be guided by a set of principles (spiritual and otherwise) that direct
your life along healthy, happy, and prosperous lines

Knowing all this isn't it time you thrive and utilize your present circumstances
to help you attract to yourself a greater level of health, happiness, prosperity,
and joy? Wouldn't it be great to learn from someone who has been there
too and made it through?

That's right, I have thrived and you can too!

(R EAD MY DIAMOND SOUL STORY HERE!!)

Making the Most of It

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:24:00 GMT

MAKING THE MOST OF IT

Main Quote

You play the hand you're dealt. I think the game's worthwhile. ~ Christopher Reeve

Dr. Lisa Love Coaching Tip

What I love most about the above quote is it's source. I became a huge fan of Christopher Reeve's true superhuman capacity, when he became a quadriplegic and despite the horrible tragedy he went through, he truly played the hand he was dealt with spectacular love and strength. Now, I know as much as the next person what it is like to want to indulge in my own pity party and lament the hand I have at times been dealt. I'm not going to pretend that tough times don't require their own level of sorting through some emotional turbulence before you arrive at the point of thinking the game you are now forced to play is worthwhile. So feel sad, mad, confused, afraid, jealous even! Feel your emotions because they are frequently cards in the hand you've been played. Then, get busy learning how to process these emotions well so you can set those cards down and draw some new one's like: faith, hope, optimism, courage, dignity, wisdom, clarity, and even love. That's the premise behind my Thrive Not Survive book. Learning to handle these emotional states well. Why? So, you can keep playing those cards well enough to eventually pull off enough of a winning hand to realize that the game of self-discovery and learning to love yourself and others is in fact the only worthwhile game in town.

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, visit my website at www.doctorlisalove.com to get a variety of free gifts I offer to you!

Cultivating Joy

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:23:00 GMT

CULTIVATING JOY

Main Quote

Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for yourself. In giving it, you will accumulate a deposit of joy greater than you ever believed possible. ~ Norman Vincent Peale

Dr. Lisa Love Coaching Tip

Have you ever noticed there is a difference between joy and happines? I have, which is why I believe happiness is an emotion and joy is not. Think about it. We say people feel happy and unhappy, but we don't say people are joyful and unjoyful. In fact, the word unjoyful doesn't exist. What's going on here? I think it means joy comes totally from a spiritual place. Joy is rooted in the soul and its focus on service and giving. Joy orients you towards understanding the needs of others, lifting you out of your own discontent, misery, or unhappiness as you do so. Joy reminds you that no matter what the outer circumstances of your life there is someone who needs you and someone who is very grateful that you are here. So, give joy this week to others. Give a smile, a hug, an encouraging word. Give of your time, energy, money, and especially give them your love. Others need you. You are here for a purpose. Give joy, and notice how in giving it you naturally experience joy in return.

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, visit my website at www.doctorlisalove.com to get a variety of free gifts I offer to you!

Setting Yourself Up For Greatness

DoctorLisaLove — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:20:00 GMT

SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR GREATNESS

Main Quote

It is the nature of man to rise to greatness if greatness is expected of him. ~ John Steinbeck

Dr. Lisa Love Coaching Tip

Here's something to pray for at this time of year, something as a Law of Attraction coach I would absolutely delight in if you attracted this to you. Start right now to attract people into your life who really see the greatness in you. After all, why would you want anything else? Sure, as a counselor I understand. Maybe you have had a lifetime of having people in your life who doubted, discouraged, and diminished who you really are and the glorious contribution you are here to make in life. I understand. Believe me, despite all my talents I've been through this. Plenty of people attempted to keep me down. The only way out of this dilemma was for me to constantly believe in myself enough to attract into my life people who believed in me as well. And, here is the fun part. The more I do this, the better I feel. And, the better I am able to discern who genuinely encourages my success and who does not. Isn't it way past time for you to have this in your own life? Affirm daily then how more and more people are seeing and expecting greatness out of you. I for one, will too!

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, visit my website at www.doctorlisalove.com to get a variety of free gifts I offer to you!

Thrive Not Survive - Listen to Recorded Teleclass for FREE

DoctorLisaLove — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:05:00 GMT

THRIVE NOT SURVIVE TELECLASS INFO

Using the Law of Attraction you can learn to THRIVE NOT SURVIVE in difficult times. Together we will learn how to ensure that the worst of times can be turned around to become the best of times after all! (They have in my life, they can in yours).

# Are you suddenly experiencing financial difficulties?
# Have you recently experienced the end of a relationship?
# Have health issues of you or a loved one got you down?
# Is life in general giving you anxiety or the blues?
# Tired, uncertain, and don't know where to go?
# Experiencing too much mental and emotional turmoil?

It's time to learn how you can attract to yourself a greater level of joy and peace that is waiting for you on the other side of where your present circumstances have put you. Yes, you will not only make it through this alright, you will come out stronger, better, and more joyful and prosperous than ever before!

* Learn how the law of attraction can help you move through this in a joyful way and help you transform.
* Discover how you can stay joyful no matter what circumstances you face in your life.
* Tap into your intuitive mind to give you fresh ideas and insights you didn't recognize before that will help you thrive and not just cope.
* Access your logical mind to help you create a clear path of success to make it through healthy, wealthy, and whole.
* Utilize your desire mind to get you motivated again to make your dreams come true.
* Work skillfully with your instinctual mind to get rid of out-worn patterns and beliefs that are stopping you from succeeding right now.
* Shift six major emotional states (sadness, anger, jealousy, fear, confusion, and happiness) so that they all serve your ultimate
transformation and success instead of drag you down.
* Know once and for you will make it through and live the much better life you are intended to.

LISTEN TO CLASS FREE HERE

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To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, Email me about a variety of free gifts I can offer to you!

Say, Not Just Pray, Your Gratitude

DoctorLisaLove — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 16:51:00 GMT

Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone. ~ Gladys Browyn Stern

It's absolutely wonderful to give thanks. And, here is a wonderful way to share your gratitude with others. It's a ritual I've had for years right around this time of year (coinciding with the USA holiday of Thanksgiving). Sit down and make up a list of all the people who did something wonderful for you this past year -- big or small. Then, pick up the phone or take out a thank you card and share it with the person who you owe gratitude too. Of course, you can also go high tech with an Email or Ecard (though I believe the personal touch is better). And, if you can go ahead and share your gratitude in person. You might be pleasantly surprised how people respond to you, especially if several months had passed. Plus, it feels so good to not only pray your gratitude, but say your gratitude. Just try it. Others will be grateful too!

To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, Email me about a variety of free gifts I can offer to you!

Laugh, Smile, and More!

DoctorLisaLove — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 16:41:00 GMT

I have a good, hearty laugh and an energetic handshake, and those are trump cards. ~ Albert Camus

Joy is infectious. Especially when someone combines their joy with radiant energy it is natural to be attracted to that person. Though I don't recommend that people over-ride their real feelings with fake one's, I do encourage people to be mindful of how their moods impact themselves and others. That's why setting the intention to be joyful and energetic can actually lead you into a joyful and energetic mood. Here are some ways to do so! First, smile! Yep, just smile. Exaggerate your smile if you need to, especially just before you enter a room where other people may be relying on you to be in an up mood. Next, practice a good hearty laugh by saying to yourself when alone, "Ha, ha, ha. Ha, ha, ha. Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha." Sure it will sound fake. And, you may even feel pretty stupid. But, that very same feeling of "this is silly" may actually put you into a silly mood where your fake attempt at a hearty laugh becomes very real. Then there is this one. Yell out loud, 'Yahoo!" Do this as you leap out of bed (especially if you are worried you will have a lousy day). Do it in your car, just before you enter work or your home, or if you can pull it off in front of a group of people. Of course people will wonder what you are up to. But, you may actually get them laughing in a hearty way with you. And, for a time your worries may melt away bringing you that much more energy in your life and lifting your overall mood.

To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, Email me about a variety of free gifts I can offer to you!

Ending a Relationship? -- Here's Help!

DoctorLisaLove — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:33:00 GMT

Struggling with the end of a relationship? It doesn't have to be that painful. There are ways to minimize the impact by learning healthy ways to let go and move on. This also ensures that you are more likely to build the foundation for an even healthier and happier relationship next time around.

Face it! None of us like to go through a rejection or a breakup of a relationship that held so much promise and potential. Especially around the holiday season, facing a breakup can be difficult causing you to feel even more alone. But, does it have to be this way? You may wonder, how can it not? We are human after all. True, but in my own life and in my work with clients, I have a number of tips that can help minimize the impact. First, let yourself go through a period of celebration regarding everything that was good about the relationship. If need be write all those memories down. These good memories will brighten your mood, guaranteed. Second, know that anything that was unfulfilling about the relationship is now passing away. Take the time you need to to grieve it and let it go. Third, approach the ending of any relationship as a chance to be open to experiencing something new. Look forward to continuing all the positive experiences you experienced in the old relationship, as you create new ones. Keep your thoughts on a positive level so you can attract even more good in your life. Fourth, take some time to assess how you were in this relationship. What were the qualities you offered that were outstanding and loving? How can you carry the good stuff forward into your next relationship? What qualities were devitalizing or detrimental? What do you need to do to become a better person and partner so you don't continue to bring these elements into relationships in your future? Finally, remember that when it comes to rejection, no one has the power to reject you if you don't reject yourself! Be there for yourself when any relationship ends. After all, the most important relationship you will ever have is with the person called, "You!" Be a good friend to yourself. Surround yourself with loving people. Expand your support group. Move deeper into your spiritual practice. Trust the process. You will get through.

To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love

About Dr. Lisa Love

Best-selling author of BEYOND THE SECRET: Spiritual Power and the Law of Attraction, Attracting Real Love, and Thrive Not Survive!. Life, Relationship, Law of Attraction coach. There's a reason my clients tell me by working with me they get major breakthroughs fast! Decades of coaching and counseling experience combined with my extensive training and work with clients from all backgrounds help my clients make shifts in a rapid way. Discover what I can do for you. Call now! Plus, Email me about a variety of free gifts I can offer to you!

Passion + Intention + Attention = Results

DoctorLisaLove — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:30:00 GMT

It's easy to start out with a great idea or dream that you want to turn into a reality. The more difficult part is getting that idea or dream launched off the ground. Though there are more key ingredients than the one's listed below, the three most essential ones to get you focused and started are mentioned. Let's review them.

Passion. This is where you need to begin. Find something that you deeply care about and pursue it. For example, think of two to three positive things right now that you most want by the end of your life. These reflect your heart's deepest desires and reveal what you are really passionate about. This word passion means "suffering," in other words, you are willing to suffer and make sacrifices for whatever you care about the most. At the same time when you are passionate about something, you may not even notice the suffering or sacrifice. This is because you are too driven by your desire and love for it to notice the sacrifices you might be making.

Intention. Once you identify what your passion, set an intention to actualize it in your life. Like a child who states, "I want to be an astronaut," orient your thoughts, feelings, and actions along a certain line. The more focused you are on this, the more likely it is to become a reality. Without focus you become distracted, usually because you do not have enough real drive or passion to create an intention, or because fear steps in some how to divert you. Revisiting how passionate you really are or locating and relieving the specific fears is very helpful at this point.

Attention. Once you know what you are passionate about and have set your intention, it is time to pay attention to those "fortunate opportunities" that can help you (at times almost magically) get what you want. These opportunities can come about through intuitions, signs, and synchronicities. Or, they may happen by deliberately pursuing a certain path attempting to get increasingly clear about what you want there. Each method is useful and helps your heart's deepest desires become a reality. Each requires staying open to the possibility that what you really want can come your way, and blocking out negative thoughts that muddy up your ability to see how you can get what you want.

By maintaining your passion, intention and attention you start to generate results. You discover what gives you the most life and energy, you strengthen your desire to achieve it, and you notice various ways it can come true. If either of these three drop away, then step back and take the time to tune each level back up. Then you will no longer feel stagnant and the wind will be back into your sails speeding you along the way. May your sailing be smooth and clear! And of course, if you need support and direction, that is why my services are here.

To your success!

Dr. Lisa Love

About Dr. Lisa Love