Ever wish you could get inside the head of a man and find out what it is that men REALLY want?

I am the author of the soon-to-be-published "He's Just Not Into What You Are Doing!", an obviously-calculated response to some of the romantic self-help books recently aimed at women.

Walk into your local bookstore and go to the relationship section. The shelves are positively groaning with books addressed to a female audience on how to catch and keep a man, how to get married (or remarried), and how to change your man.

But despite these groaning bookshelves, last year in the USA there were more single women than married women - for the FIRST time since such statistics have been tallied.

The problem is not, and never has been, all about men. Our culture is teaching attitudes and actions that are sabatoging women's romantic relationships.

Do you know:

• The two attitudes you can cultivate that will lead to the most satisfying long-term relationships with men?
• The five most destructive thing that a woman can do to undermine a relationship?
• The single most destructive attitude for a healthy relationship (and MOST people hold this attitude!)?
• The five most serious mistakes that women make in personal (or internet) ads?
• Why complaining that all men want "only one thing" is a sure-fire way to drive away the type of man that you could enjoy a lasting marriage with?
• Code words that women learn from our culture that undermine all romantic relationships?
• How your friends may keep you from getting married? The five reasons that women sabotage relationships?
• Why men emotionally withdraw just when you think that things are going well?
• How reading self-help books may doom you to a life of singleness?
• Why you may be attracted to bad boys?
• The ONE attitude that will chase away the most eligible, pro-marriage men?

The definition of insanity is to keep doing what you have been doing and expecting different results! You will never figure out what men want by listening to other women or by listening to a feminized media.

Do you want to read a book that will make you feel more comfortable about being alone? Or give you a "sense of empowerment?" Or would you rather learn, from a man, how to be the kind of woman that men want?

The Truth is: men are just as into women and marriage as they have always been. But they are not into certain maladaptive behaviors that seem to be encouraged by our culture.

Tired of being led from Mars to Venus with no results? Call me, and we will talk about your experiences in relationships and then develop a series of attitudes and strategies that will help you capture the man of your dreams!

I have earned a Ph.D. and have been counseling, educating, and writing for more than 20 years. I am a certified Personal Trainer, Sports Nutritionist, and EMT. I am a published author in many fields, including family issues, law, politics, philosophy, and psychological disorders.