What are Flaky People? They are very insecure personalities. They are
extremely jealous and envious. They are very catty and insecure about
themselves. So destroying you is considered sport. They over compensate for
their insecurities in many diverse ways. Many of these personality types have
behavior patterns very similar to Narcissistic and Borderline (emotionally
unstable) behavior patterns and a combination of both called a co-morbid
crossover. Their fear of rejection, ridicule, abandonment have them act out
these fears in very self centered ways. They need to be the center of attention,
they do not care how their behaviors affect others, it is always all about them.
There fear abandonment in relationships is so terrifying for them they never let
you get to close to them. To these insecure personalities if you do get to close
to me, you can hurt me. Flaky personalities must always guard against true
closeness or intimacy. So they will curtail all contact with a person to who
he/she feels might becoming close to them. For example, here on one day gone the
next. These behaviors are all part of their need to be in control. They do not
feel they owe you any explanation for their hurtful behavior towards you.
The female Flaky personality is called an "Entitlement Princess" because she
behaves as if she thinks she is royalty and therefore entitled to anything she
wants, no matter what the consequences are for others. In colloquial terms, she
has often been more crudely portrayed simply as a soiled brat."
Flake is no better, he feels special and entitled to special treatment, he knows
all and treats others like they are objects rather than people, they are there
only to serve his wants and needs. Many are Commitment Phobic types.
personalities behavior patterns fall under the "entitled or spoiled"
Flaky personalities are also extremely unreliable and inconsistent, usually
because they are so self-absorbed. They fail to turn up to pre-arranged meetings
or are hours late, they will not return a call or text message for days offering
only obvious lies as excuses for their inconsiderate behavior towards you.
They believe the world centers around them so they act in accordance to that
They have a deep need for attention. You will also notice that in any group
situation, when someone stands out of the crowd or holds the audience, the Flaky
personality will find a way of undermining the one having the attention, for
they must have that all for themselves. They will find ways to act up. The true
drama king and queen. Flirting, acting provocative, talking loud, making a scene
of some sort, etc. Remember everything in their lives is a major event. Social
media such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc., Is where they can acquire
the attention they need. Since they cannot validate themselves they need you to
validate them and their sense of self worth. Social Media is their stomping
ground. They are the ones who change their profile picture every other day, make
up stories about themselves, many of the stories I have analyzed for content
about alleged kidnappings, assaults, racist incidents have been false stories.
They become very offended when they do not get a hundred likes. Everything they
do is posted. They believe everyone needs to know everything about their lives
because they are so special. When that attention is not forth coming they will
hide their profile for a week or so. Then it will reappear again. Remember
"movement attracts attention." They will block you and defriend you at the drop
of a hat because of something you may have said or didn't say to their attention
getting games. These are the personalities who cannot be off their I-phone for
two seconds at dinner or any other social engagement.
Flaky personalities are always ready to take offense or feel slighted by even
the most casual remark which they perceive as being hostile to them. They
commonly misinterpret what others say or write, as if it was meant badly towards
them, even when it's not about them. They can feel insulted by what seems to
others to be an innocuous remark and cannot take even the least kind of
criticism. This will also result in their making a campaign out of the
destruction of the critic. Nothing will be spared in that quest. They will
spread rumors about you to others. They will ruin your reputation. They will do
everything in their power to have everyone not believe you. They will do
everything in their power to discredit you, so everyone will not take anything
you have to say about them seriously. They must keep that mask up at all costs.
Flaky personalities are terrified of Alpha personalities a true confident
male or female.
They find such personalities so catastrophically threatening
that they almost pretend that these personalities don't exist. This is because
of the possibility of rejection or abandonment either due to their ability to
see through them (which they certainly do very quickly) or because they fear
that such a confident personality will not be interested in them (which he/she
certainly wouldn't) or, if they were to embark on a relationship with them, they
would soon reject and abandon them for another. Alpha's see right through these
personality types. This is the Flaky personalities fear. The fear that you will
be able to expose them for the insecure personalities they are. They do
everything in their power to discredit you. They will make you out to be the
problem, the jerk, the problems in any relationship with them or friends. You
are always the problem, so lying about you and talking behind your back is a
common tactic of these personality types. When true Alpha's come into the room,
these insecure personalities disappear. This is to disguises and conceal their
fear. They are frightened stiff of the Alpha's because they know true Alpha's
are no fools and can see right through them.
I could go on and on about Flaky Personalities, don't be fooled. If you are a
true confident male or female you will not be for very long. If you are unsure about the people in your personal or professional life call me, my ex. is 01155 I will be more than happy to help you.